~~* 60 WAYS TO KEEP THE LOVE OF YOUR HUSBAND~~*

Okay sister here it is hot off the press. Behind ever man is a good a woman. Inshallah tomorrow will be easier than today.

Dear Islamic Sisters,


~~* 60 WAYS TO KEEP THE LOVE OF YOUR HUSBAND~~*

1-Behave like a female i.e.all tenderness of a female -a man does not
want a man for his wife.!!

2-Dress pleasantly .If you are a home maker ,do not say in your
sleeping suit all day.

3-Smell good!

4-Do not lay out all your problems on your husband as soon as he walks
in.Give him a little metal break.

5- Do not keep asking him''WHAT ARE YOU THINKING''??

6-Stop nagging non-stop before Allah gives you something really complain about .

7-Absolutely no talking about spousal problems to anyone you meet ,not
even under pretense of seeking help! If you think you want to solve
legitimate marital issues ,then go seek counseling with the right
person who can give you advice in either:

(I).Mediate any injustice done so any wrong can be corrected and the
couple can reunite in harmony ,or

(II) Amicable divorce.

8-Be kind to your mother -in-law the same way you would like your
husband to be kind to your own mother.

9-Learn all the rights and obligations of each other in Islam .Focus
on the fulfilling your obligations not demanding your rights.

10- Race to the door when he comes home,as if you were waiting for him
.Smile and hug him(when u r alone)

11- Keep your house clean ,at least to the level that he wants it.

12- Compliment him on the things you know he's not so confident
about(looks ,intelligence ,etc) This will build self esteem.

13- Call his family often

14- Tell him he's the best husband ever .

15 Give him a simple task to do at home and then thank him when he
does it.This will encourage him to do more.

16-When he 's talking something boring,listen ,and nod your head .Even
ask question to make it seem like you are interested.

17-Encourage him to do good deeds.

18- If he is in a bad mood ,give him some space .He will get over
it,insha Allah .

19-Thank him sincerely for providing you with food and shelter.It's a big deal

20-If he is angry with you and start yelling ,let him yell it out
while you are quiet .You will see your fight will end a lot faster
.Then when he's calm ,you can tell him your side of the story and how
you want him to change something.

21- When you are mad at him,do not say''YOU MAKE ME FURIOUS ''rather
''THIS ACTION MAKES ME UPSET''.Direct your anger to the action and
circumstances rather than at him.

22-Remember that your husband has feeling ,so take them into consideration.

23- Let him chill with his friends without guilt ,especially if they
are good guys.Encourage him to go out ,so he does not feel ''cooped
up''at home.

24-If your husband is annoyed over a little thing you do (and you can
control it) then stop dong it.Really

25-Learn how to tell him what you except without him having guess all
the time.Learn to communicate your feelings.

26-Do not get mad over small things.It's not worth it.

27-Make jokes.If you are not naturally funny ,go on internet and read
some jokes and the tell him.

28-Tell him you're best wife ever compliment yourself on certain
things you know you are good at.

29- Learn to make his favorite dish.

30- ''DO NOT EVER ,EVER TALK BAD ABOUT HIM'' with friends or family
unnecessarily.If they end up agreeing with you ,you will see that it
hits you back in the face because you get more depressed that you have
a bad husband-and other people also think you have bad husband .

31-Use your time wisely and get things accomplished .If you are a home
maker ,take online classes and get in your community .This will make
you happy and secondary bonus is that it impresses your husband.

32-Do all above fee SABEELILLAH and you will see Allah put BARAKAH in
everything you do.

33- Husband and wife should discuss and communicate with wisdom with
each other to convey what they like and dislike of each other to do or
not to do.Do NOT give commands like he's your servant.''THEY ARE
GARMENTS TO EACH OTHER''[Surah -Baqarah 2;187]

34-Tell your husband you love him,many times. Aisha narrated that the
Prophet used to ask her how strong her love for him,she said like ''a
knot'' .And next time he would ask her.''How is that knot?'' He also
used to reply her saying''Jazakallah .,O Aishah ,wallahi you have
rejoiced in me as I have rejoiced in you.''

35- Have a race with your husband and let him win,even if you are much
fitter and stronger than him.

36-Keep fit and take care of your health so you will remain strong
mother,wife,cook and housekeeper ,INSHA ALLAH YOU WILL NOT GET FAT AND
FRUMPY''

37-Refine and cultivate good mannerisms i.e do not whime ,do not laugh
or talk too loud or walk like an elephant.

38-Do not leave the house without permission and certainly not without
his knowledge.

39- Make sure all his clothes are clean and pressed so he is always
looking fresh and crisp.

40- Do not discuss important/controversial matters with him when he is
tired or sleepy .Find right time for right discussion.

41-The way to man's heart is through his stomach lol

42- Always let him know that you appreciate him working and bringing
home the''dough'' .It makes it easier for him to go work.

43- Make sure you ALWAYS have something for dinner.

44- Brush you hair, everyday and your teeth too.

45- Do not forget to do laundry.

46- Surprise him with gifts .Even necessities ,such as shoes ,can be gifts.

47-Listen to him .(Even when he talks about extremely boring things
like basketball or computers)

48- Try( hard as it might be) to take interest in his hobbies.

49- Try not to go shopping too much...and spend all his money.

50- Look attractive and be seductive towards him .Flirt with him.

51- Learn tricks and''techniques'' to please your husband in
intimacy.(Of course goes both ways)

52- Prepare for special evening with him with special dinner and
exclusive time .

53- Take care of your skin,especially your face.The face is center of
attraction.

54- If you not satisfied intimately talk to him and tell him .Help him
or provide resources,do not wait until matters become worse.
55- Ask Allah to strengthen and preserve the bonds of compassion and
love between the two of you,every day,every prayer.Ask him to protect
that bond from shaytaan .When a lesser devil destroys the love between
spouses ,he is the most beloved of shaytaan .Nothing works like the
dua and love exists between spouses where Allah installs it.

56- Do not EVER compare you husbands to other husbands! For example do
not say''WELL HER HUSBAND DOES NOT DO THAT WHAT DO YOU...''(thats
killer)

57- Be happy with that you have because no one is perfect .If you want
perfection wait until you enter jannah together insha Allah -and of
course vice versa!!


58-Strive for Allah 's love first and foremost ! if all wives try to
seek Allah's love and pleasure surely they can keep their husbands
love too.And remember -if Allah loves you ,the angels will love you
and entire creation will love you .

59- If you pack lunch for your husband to take to work ,from time to
time sneak in a little love note or sweet poem .If he does not take a
lunch ,leave the note somewhere else for him to find ,like in his
briefcase .or wallet or on the care steering wheel.

60-Wake up for Qiyam ul- Layl (in the last third of the night) and ask
him to pray with you..

HOPE YOU LIKE IT

MAY ALLAH PRESERVE ALL OUR MARRIAGES AND HELP US UNDERSTAND AND
IMPLEMENT THEM IN AND WITH THE BEST MANNER
Ameen!!!

JAZAKALLAH.