AS SALAM-O-ALAYKUM WA RAHMATULLAHI WA BARAKATUHU...
In Qur'an it is stated 'Ramadan is the month in which was sent down
the Qur'an as a guide to mankind, also Clear Signs for guidance and
judgment between right and wrong." (Suratul Baqara, 2:185).
The Holy Prophet (SAW) said 'O People! The month of Allah (SWT) has
come with His mercies... and blessings. This is the month that is the
best of all months in the eyes of Allah (SWT). Its days are the best
of days, its nights are the best of nights, its hours are the best of
hours'.
Pray to ALLAH that this month reaches you while you are in the best of
health and safety so that you can fast and do all your acts of
devotion with ease and enthusiasm.
Be thankful to ALLAH and show happiness. The companions of the Prophet
(S.A.W) used to greet each other on the beginning of Ramadan.
Make a good plan for the whole month about how you are going to
organize your days and evenings during Ramadan.
schedules for your work so that you can pray on time, read the Quran
and take Sahur (the meal consumed early in early morning before fajr
prayer) and Iftar (breaking the fast at sunset, Maghreb prayer) on
time.
Fasting is very important so that you do not do anything that will
spoil your fasts. Learn the way of Prophet Muhammad(S.A.W) in fasting.
The Prophet Muhammad(S.A.W) said:
"Whosoever does not give up bad words and bad deeds, Allah has no need
in that he leaves his food and his drink." (Al-Bukhari)
The month of Ramadan is the month of kindness, charity and
generosity.Be more generous and help the poor and needy.
The Prophet – peace be upon him - was the most generous person, but in
Ramadan he used to be more generous when Gabriel used to meet him.
Gabriel used to see him during Ramadan every night and he used to read
the Quran with him. The Prophet –peace be upon him - was then more
generous with goodness than the blowing wind." (Al-Bukhari)
Allah the Almighty shows His kindness to those who remember Him.
May Allah (SWT) give us the strength to gain the Taqwa,patience,
self-assurance and self-control, wealth of blessings from this holy
month of Ramadan. Amin.
Jazakallah kherin
Saturday, July 30, 2011
Bukhari Vol. 7 : No. 745
Bismillah Walhamdulillah Was Salaatu Was Salaam 'ala Rasulillah
As-Salaam Alaikum Wa-Rahmatullahi Wa-Barakatuhu
Dress - 29th Sha'aban 1432 (30th July 2011)
Narrated 'Aisha (Radi-Allahu 'anha):
The Prophet (Sallallahu 'Alaihi Wa Sallam) used to like starting from the
right in performing ablution, combing his hair and putting on his shoes.
Bukhari Vol. 7 : No. 745
Ma'asalaam
As-Salaam Alaikum Wa-Rahmatullahi Wa-Barakatuhu
Dress - 29th Sha'aban 1432 (30th July 2011)
Narrated 'Aisha (Radi-Allahu 'anha):
The Prophet (Sallallahu 'Alaihi Wa Sallam) used to like starting from the
right in performing ablution, combing his hair and putting on his shoes.
Bukhari Vol. 7 : No. 745
Ma'asalaam
Friday, July 29, 2011
Computer Virus
COMPUTER SHORTCUTS-
’Enter’ the masjid,
‘Forward’ your salaat,
‘Download’ Quran,
‘Firewall’ your iman,
‘Backspace’ from shaitan,
‘Bookmark’ to ALLAH SWT,
’Delete’ ALLAH’s enemies,
‘Copy paste’ from the Al-Qur’an and Sunnah,
‘Help’ your muslim brothers n sisters,
‘File’ ur amal,
‘Edit’ ur akhlaq
‘View’ your good and bad deeds,
‘Search’ the straight and right path,
~~InshaAllah you will never get a virus
’Enter’ the masjid,
‘Forward’ your salaat,
‘Download’ Quran,
‘Firewall’ your iman,
‘Backspace’ from shaitan,
‘Bookmark’ to ALLAH SWT,
’Delete’ ALLAH’s enemies,
‘Copy paste’ from the Al-Qur’an and Sunnah,
‘Help’ your muslim brothers n sisters,
‘File’ ur amal,
‘Edit’ ur akhlaq
‘View’ your good and bad deeds,
‘Search’ the straight and right path,
~~InshaAllah you will never get a virus
A prayer to my Allah
Wây Ôf Trûth
Oh Allah!
I Am Not Weak.
_
Oh Allah!
I Am Not Weak.
_
I have the power to persuade,
I have the power to motivate,
_
I have the power to stand,
I have the power to speak,
_
Why then my mind says.
I Am So Weak?
_
Oh Allah, Help me please!
Oh Allah, Help me please!
_
Gone Are The Days,
Days In Which I Took A Step,
_
Step to Stop Evil,
From taking Over A Mind,
_
In those days,
I used to laugh,
I used to tease,
I used to weep,
Yet, wonderful did they stayed.
_
Why then today?
Oh Allah, why then today?
_
When a word spoken to me linking to that part of my life makes me to
weep and cry.
_
Even today I have the power to stand and speak.
_
The power YOU gave to me.
The wisdom YOU Provided Me With.
_
Unknown to all.
But known to YOU and Me.
_
I don't know where my life will take me?
I m thinking in what a web i m trapped in.
Sometimes i see a dark incident that future holds that will distroy everything..
Sometimes I say to 'self'- " Trust Allah and leave everything"
_
Oh Allah, YOU Gave Power to stand,
When I Was About To Fall..
Oh Allah, YOU Gave Me Console,
When I Was In Grief and Sorrow.
Oh Allah, YOU showed me the truth,
When my emotiôns were played with'..
Oh Allah, YOU saw my tears,
When I used to weep..
Oh Allah, today I need YOU again,
Once Again..
Help me to stand.
Help me to be strong.
Help me to face the reality.
Face the Reality and false,
Oh Allah, Help me..
Oh ALLAH, Help me..
To Decide..
What is right and wrong?
Don't let me break..
Don't let me go away..
Oh Allah...I Need You:'-(
Author anonymous
Oh Allah!
I Am Not Weak.
_
Oh Allah!
I Am Not Weak.
_
I have the power to persuade,
I have the power to motivate,
_
I have the power to stand,
I have the power to speak,
_
Why then my mind says.
I Am So Weak?
_
Oh Allah, Help me please!
Oh Allah, Help me please!
_
Gone Are The Days,
Days In Which I Took A Step,
_
Step to Stop Evil,
From taking Over A Mind,
_
In those days,
I used to laugh,
I used to tease,
I used to weep,
Yet, wonderful did they stayed.
_
Why then today?
Oh Allah, why then today?
_
When a word spoken to me linking to that part of my life makes me to
weep and cry.
_
Even today I have the power to stand and speak.
_
The power YOU gave to me.
The wisdom YOU Provided Me With.
_
Unknown to all.
But known to YOU and Me.
_
I don't know where my life will take me?
I m thinking in what a web i m trapped in.
Sometimes i see a dark incident that future holds that will distroy everything..
Sometimes I say to 'self'- " Trust Allah and leave everything"
_
Oh Allah, YOU Gave Power to stand,
When I Was About To Fall..
Oh Allah, YOU Gave Me Console,
When I Was In Grief and Sorrow.
Oh Allah, YOU showed me the truth,
When my emotiôns were played with'..
Oh Allah, YOU saw my tears,
When I used to weep..
Oh Allah, today I need YOU again,
Once Again..
Help me to stand.
Help me to be strong.
Help me to face the reality.
Face the Reality and false,
Oh Allah, Help me..
Oh ALLAH, Help me..
To Decide..
What is right and wrong?
Don't let me break..
Don't let me go away..
Oh Allah...I Need You:'-(
Author anonymous
Bukhari Vol. 7 : No. 718
Bismillah Walhamdulillah Was Salaatu Was Salaam 'ala Rasulillah
As-Salaam Alaikum Wa-Rahmatullahi Wa-Barakatuhu
Dress - 27th Sha'aban 1432 (28th July 2011)
Narrated Aba 'Uthman An-Nahdi (Radi-Allahu 'anhu):
While we were with 'Utba bin Farqad at Adharbijan, there came 'Umar's
letter indicating that Allah's Apostle (Sallallahu 'Alaihi Wa Sallam) had
forbidden the use of silk except this much, then he pointed with his index
and middle fingers. To our knowledge, by that he meant embroidery.
Bukhari Vol. 7 : No. 718
As-Salaam Alaikum Wa-Rahmatullahi Wa-Barakatuhu
Dress - 27th Sha'aban 1432 (28th July 2011)
Narrated Aba 'Uthman An-Nahdi (Radi-Allahu 'anhu):
While we were with 'Utba bin Farqad at Adharbijan, there came 'Umar's
letter indicating that Allah's Apostle (Sallallahu 'Alaihi Wa Sallam) had
forbidden the use of silk except this much, then he pointed with his index
and middle fingers. To our knowledge, by that he meant embroidery.
Bukhari Vol. 7 : No. 718
Ramadan days away inshallah
Assalamu-Alaikum and Greetings !
This morning I received this email and I thought I would share it with my brothers and sisters. Please take a moment and check in to thus further. This site mashallah has a lot of useful knowledge and information to share.
I pray that we all have a blessed Ramadan and that our faith, and that our knowledge in Allah swt and the prophet peace and blessing be upon him be increased. Ameen!
The blessed month of Ramadan is almost here with its opportunities for those who are willing and eager to make use of those opportunities. However, for those of us who are planning to focus only on the physical aspects of fasting and praying, we need to pause and focus on the spiritual aspects instead, without which we risk losing earning any rewards whatsoever.
The article below discusses this topic in further detail. Even if you have heard these messages before, you can always pick up some nuggets of wisdom or knowledge. So, ensure that you do take a few minutes to read the article and share it with those who can benefit from it.
RAMADAN 2011 - How to Maximize Your Rewards
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This morning I received this email and I thought I would share it with my brothers and sisters. Please take a moment and check in to thus further. This site mashallah has a lot of useful knowledge and information to share.
I pray that we all have a blessed Ramadan and that our faith, and that our knowledge in Allah swt and the prophet peace and blessing be upon him be increased. Ameen!
The blessed month of Ramadan is almost here with its opportunities for those who are willing and eager to make use of those opportunities. However, for those of us who are planning to focus only on the physical aspects of fasting and praying, we need to pause and focus on the spiritual aspects instead, without which we risk losing earning any rewards whatsoever.
The article below discusses this topic in further detail. Even if you have heard these messages before, you can always pick up some nuggets of wisdom or knowledge. So, ensure that you do take a few minutes to read the article and share it with those who can benefit from it.
RAMADAN 2011 - How to Maximize Your Rewards
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Wednesday, July 27, 2011
Narrated Abdullah (Radi-Allahu 'anhu): Bukhari Vol. 7 : No. 696
Bismillah Walhamdulillah Was Salaatu Was Salaam 'ala Rasulillah
As-Salaam Alaikum Wa-Rahmatullahi Wa-Barakatuhu
Dress - 26th Sha'aban 1432 (27th July 2011)
Narrated Abdullah (Radi-Allahu 'anhu):
A man got up and said, "O Allah's Apostle! What do you order us to wear
when we assume the state of Ihram?" The Prophet (Sallallahu 'Alaihi Wa
Sallam) replied, "Do not wear shirts, trousers, turbans, hooded cloaks or
Khuffs, but if a man has no sandals, he can wear Khuffs after cutting them
short below the ankles; and do not wear clothes touched with (perfumes) of
saffron or wars."
Bukhari Vol. 7 : No. 696
Ma'asalaam
As-Salaam Alaikum Wa-Rahmatullahi Wa-Barakatuhu
Dress - 26th Sha'aban 1432 (27th July 2011)
Narrated Abdullah (Radi-Allahu 'anhu):
A man got up and said, "O Allah's Apostle! What do you order us to wear
when we assume the state of Ihram?" The Prophet (Sallallahu 'Alaihi Wa
Sallam) replied, "Do not wear shirts, trousers, turbans, hooded cloaks or
Khuffs, but if a man has no sandals, he can wear Khuffs after cutting them
short below the ankles; and do not wear clothes touched with (perfumes) of
saffron or wars."
Bukhari Vol. 7 : No. 696
Ma'asalaam
A Quick preparation tips for RAMADAN *****
Asalaamu Alaikum Warahmatullahi Wabarakatu,
Brothers and Sisters Ramadan is only few days away. Are we prepared?
We know from Sunnah that the Sahbah would prepare 6 months before
Ramadan. InshaAllah lets remind each other about this blessed month of
Ramadan.
A lot of us yearn to prepare for Ramadan, but we have no idea how to
start. Below are a few tips to insha’Allah help prepare our minds and
hearts for this upcoming Month of Mercy.
1. Making the Intention
Simple to do and has a powerful impact. Maybe you want to prepare for
Ramadan, but between school, work, family, and any other activities,
you just have no idea how to fit in ‘Preparing for Ramadan’ time.
Instead of making ‘preparing for Ramadan’ something separate from your
daily activities, MAKE your daily activities a means of preparation
for Ramadan.
For example, perhaps your mom asked you to pick up your brother from
school on the day you finally had time to read a few extra pages of
Qur’an. Instead of feeling upset and feeling like you have lost a
great preparation for Ramadan opportunity, make the intention that you
are picking up your brother to please Allah subhanahu wa ta’ala and
prepare for Ramadan by obeying your mother, helping your family
members, building ties of kinship… and the list continues.
The point is that preparing for Ramadan does not have to be some
magnificent, enormous, extra-special thing that needs to be done at a
certain time of the day. Many of your daily actions can be turned into
Ramadan preparation actions with a sincere intention, insha’Allah.
2. Do these easy-to-reap-reward actions:
Asking Allah to forgive your brothers and sisters. “Whoever seeks
forgiveness for believing men and believing woman, Allah will write
for him a good deed for each believing man and believing woman.”
[at-Tabarani, classed as hasan by al-Albani]
It was narrated that Abu Hurayrah (r.a) said “The Messenger of Allah
(sal Allahu alayhi wa sallam) said: ‘Whoever says subhanAllah wa bi
hamdih (praise and glory be to Allah) 100 times, morning and evening,
his sins will be erased even if they are like the foam on the sea.”
Narrated by al-Bukhari, 6042; Muslim 2691
If a person says “SubhanAllah” (glory be to Allah) 100 times, a
thousand good deeds are recorded for him and a thousand bad deeds are
wiped away. Narrated by Muslim 2073
Remember Allah when you go shopping : “Whoever enters a market and
says: ‘Laa ilaha illallah wahdahu la shareeka lah, lahul mulku wa
lahul hamdu yuhyi wa yumeetu wa huwa hayyun laa yamoot, bi yadihil
khair, wa huwa ‘ala kulli shayin qadeer’[there is nothing worthy of
worship except Allah, alone without partner, to Him belongs dominion
and praise, He causes life and death and He is the Living and does not
die. In His Hand is all the good, and He is over all things
competent]Allah will write for him/her a million good deeds and erase
a million bad deeds and raise him a million levels.” [at-Tirmidhi,
classed as hasan by al-Albani]
3. Up your worship
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To help condition your heart for this blessed month, intensify your
worship before Ramadan begins. Just a small, consistent amount is
enough. The Prophet, sal Allahu alayhi wa sallam told us:
“The deeds most loved by Allah are those done regularly, even if they
are small.”
For example, if I always pray 2 rakats of sunnah after ishaa, from
this day until Ramadan begins- and even through Ramadan, let me make
the intention that I will now pray 2 extra rakats of sunnah after
ishaa. And every time I pray these extra 2 rakats, which are more than
what I normally pray, let me remember that I am doing these with the
intention of asking Allah to help me be prepared to strive and exert
my utmost effort during Ramadan.
4. Make a duaa list today
This is THE MONTH to ask for EVERYTHING, both related to this life and
the Next. Let us not wait until the last 10 nights to make special
duaas, and then once Eid passes realize that we had completely
forgotten about fifty other things we needed to make duaa for. Let us
start making our lists now, and add to it as more things come our way.
Insha’Allah this should help us remember to make constant duaa in this
month where duaa is accepted, and help our hearts pour out to the One
Who can make those duaas happen, subhanahu wa ta’ala.
5. Write out your objectives for Ramadan
Praying all of your fard prayers? Praying all of your sunnahs? Reading
the entire Qur’an? Giving charity a day? Making itikaaf in the masjid?
Leaving one serious sin that you’ve been trying to get away from for
some time now? Sincerely turning completely back to Allah?
Write out a list, put them somewhere you will see them, and make duaa
for your success in fulfilling these objectives.
6. Make a plan!
Look at your objectives, and try to make a plan on how to actualize
those objectives in this month.
For example, perhaps you are really struggling to pray your sunnah
prayers. In this month, realize the enormity of the ajr of praying the
sunnah prayers… think that perhaps these sunnahs will be the deeds
that will be so heavy on your scale of good deeds when you are intense
need of them- on yowm al qiyamah (day of judgement). Therefore, fight
to keep doing them all throughout Ramadan. If you can’t pray your 2
rakats after dhur right away, make sure to do them as soon as you get
a chance.
Thus, your plan might look something like this:
Objective: Pray all of my fard prayers.
Method: Envision myself on the day of judgment seeing the insha’Allah
weight of praying my sunnah consistently during this month. Make sure
to pray sunnah salah immediately after salah. If I cannot, do it as
soon as the opportunity arises… don’t let myself put it off!
Another example is that of finishing the Qur’an [with Understanding]:
Objective: Finishing the entire Qur’an in this month.
Method: Read 4 pages of the Qur’an after every salah. Make sure you
understand it. 5 prayers X 4 pages = 20 pages. 20 pages= about 1 juz.
1 juz X 30= the entire Qur’an.
——-
So many Muslims have passed away since last month. So many people have
not made it to Ramadan this year. Last year was their very last
Ramadan. Will you make it to this Ramadan? Will this be your last
Ramadan?
Aim to strive in this Ramadan. With a very small amount of effort,
such as just making a small intention, or adding a few extra acts of
worship, we pray that Allah will help our hearts soften and honor us
with making it easy to turn to Him and open up to Him.
May Allah make us of the successful in Ramadan, and make it easy for
us to turn to Him completely and perpetually. Ameen.
Sunday, July 24, 2011
Islamic Knowledge of the Day: Bukhari Vol. 7 : No. 679
Bismillah Walhamdulillah Was Salaatu Was Salaam 'ala Rasulillah
As-Salaam Alaikum Wa-Rahmatullahi Wa-Barakatuhu
Dress - 23rd Sha'aban 1432 (24th July 2011)
Narrated Abu Huraira (Radi-Allahu 'anhu):
Allah's Apostle (Sallallahu 'Alaihi Wa Sallam) said "Allah will not look,
on the Day of Resurrection, at a person who drags his Izar (behind him) out
of pride and arrogance."
Bukhari Vol. 7 : No. 679
As-Salaam Alaikum Wa-Rahmatullahi Wa-Barakatuhu
Dress - 23rd Sha'aban 1432 (24th July 2011)
Narrated Abu Huraira (Radi-Allahu 'anhu):
Allah's Apostle (Sallallahu 'Alaihi Wa Sallam) said "Allah will not look,
on the Day of Resurrection, at a person who drags his Izar (behind him) out
of pride and arrogance."
Bukhari Vol. 7 : No. 679
Friday, July 22, 2011
How much do you really care about what others say?
Assalaamu Alaiqum wa Rehmatullahu wa Barakatahu.
I just wanted to say please take notice of the admonition.
"Never tell your problems to anyone...20% don't care and the other 80%
are glad you have them. Life is a test so have patience only tell your
problems to your creator Allah (swt). Keep Allah in mind and you will
find Him in front of you. Get acquainted with Allah in times of ease
and He will know you in days of distress. Know that victory comes with
patience, relief follows distress…ease follows hardship."
This statement is by no means ahadith. I'm just simply stating never tell your problems to anyone that you do not fully trust.
Jazakallah Khaira.
I just wanted to say please take notice of the admonition.
"Never tell your problems to anyone...20% don't care and the other 80%
are glad you have them. Life is a test so have patience only tell your
problems to your creator Allah (swt). Keep Allah in mind and you will
find Him in front of you. Get acquainted with Allah in times of ease
and He will know you in days of distress. Know that victory comes with
patience, relief follows distress…ease follows hardship."
This statement is by no means ahadith. I'm just simply stating never tell your problems to anyone that you do not fully trust.
Jazakallah Khaira.
A woman in HIJAB (Veil) is like a pearl in shell:
A woman in HIJAB (Veil) is like a pearl in shell:
Once Flower met a Pearl
Flower: "Our family is large; roses and daisies are members of the
family. There are many having distinctive scent, appearance etc.
Suddenly, a tinge of distress appeared on flower.
Pearl: "Nothing for sorrow in your talk, then why are depressed?"
Flower:" Human deals with us carelessly; not grow us for our sake but
to get pleasure from our fragrance and beautiful appearance, and throw
us on the street/garbage after using us. The flower sighed and said
"Tell to me about your life! How do you feel it? You are buried in the
bottom of the sea."
Pearl: "Although I have none of your distinctive colors/scents, humans
think I'm precious. They do the impossible to procure me. I live in a
thick shell isolated in the dark seas. However, I'm happy and proud to
be in safe zone far from wanton and mischievous hands and still the
humans consider me highly valuable."
Think what the Flower and the Pearl symbolize?
The Flower is the unveiled woman (who shows her charms) Without Hijab
&
The Pearl is the veiled woman (who conceals her beauties) Wearing Hijab
Once Flower met a Pearl
Flower: "Our family is large; roses and daisies are members of the
family. There are many having distinctive scent, appearance etc.
Suddenly, a tinge of distress appeared on flower.
Pearl: "Nothing for sorrow in your talk, then why are depressed?"
Flower:" Human deals with us carelessly; not grow us for our sake but
to get pleasure from our fragrance and beautiful appearance, and throw
us on the street/garbage after using us. The flower sighed and said
"Tell to me about your life! How do you feel it? You are buried in the
bottom of the sea."
Pearl: "Although I have none of your distinctive colors/scents, humans
think I'm precious. They do the impossible to procure me. I live in a
thick shell isolated in the dark seas. However, I'm happy and proud to
be in safe zone far from wanton and mischievous hands and still the
humans consider me highly valuable."
Think what the Flower and the Pearl symbolize?
The Flower is the unveiled woman (who shows her charms) Without Hijab
&
The Pearl is the veiled woman (who conceals her beauties) Wearing Hijab
~~* 60 WAYS TO KEEP THE LOVE OF YOUR HUSBAND~~*
Okay sister here it is hot off the press. Behind ever man is a good a woman. Inshallah tomorrow will be easier than today.
Dear Islamic Sisters,
~~* 60 WAYS TO KEEP THE LOVE OF YOUR HUSBAND~~*
1-Behave like a female i.e.all tenderness of a female -a man does not
want a man for his wife.!!
2-Dress pleasantly .If you are a home maker ,do not say in your
sleeping suit all day.
3-Smell good!
4-Do not lay out all your problems on your husband as soon as he walks
in.Give him a little metal break.
5- Do not keep asking him''WHAT ARE YOU THINKING''??
6-Stop nagging non-stop before Allah gives you something really complain about .
7-Absolutely no talking about spousal problems to anyone you meet ,not
even under pretense of seeking help! If you think you want to solve
legitimate marital issues ,then go seek counseling with the right
person who can give you advice in either:
(I).Mediate any injustice done so any wrong can be corrected and the
couple can reunite in harmony ,or
(II) Amicable divorce.
8-Be kind to your mother -in-law the same way you would like your
husband to be kind to your own mother.
9-Learn all the rights and obligations of each other in Islam .Focus
on the fulfilling your obligations not demanding your rights.
10- Race to the door when he comes home,as if you were waiting for him
.Smile and hug him(when u r alone)
11- Keep your house clean ,at least to the level that he wants it.
12- Compliment him on the things you know he's not so confident
about(looks ,intelligence ,etc) This will build self esteem.
13- Call his family often
14- Tell him he's the best husband ever .
15 Give him a simple task to do at home and then thank him when he
does it.This will encourage him to do more.
16-When he 's talking something boring,listen ,and nod your head .Even
ask question to make it seem like you are interested.
17-Encourage him to do good deeds.
18- If he is in a bad mood ,give him some space .He will get over
it,insha Allah .
19-Thank him sincerely for providing you with food and shelter.It's a big deal
20-If he is angry with you and start yelling ,let him yell it out
while you are quiet .You will see your fight will end a lot faster
.Then when he's calm ,you can tell him your side of the story and how
you want him to change something.
21- When you are mad at him,do not say''YOU MAKE ME FURIOUS ''rather
''THIS ACTION MAKES ME UPSET''.Direct your anger to the action and
circumstances rather than at him.
22-Remember that your husband has feeling ,so take them into consideration.
23- Let him chill with his friends without guilt ,especially if they
are good guys.Encourage him to go out ,so he does not feel ''cooped
up''at home.
24-If your husband is annoyed over a little thing you do (and you can
control it) then stop dong it.Really
25-Learn how to tell him what you except without him having guess all
the time.Learn to communicate your feelings.
26-Do not get mad over small things.It's not worth it.
27-Make jokes.If you are not naturally funny ,go on internet and read
some jokes and the tell him.
28-Tell him you're best wife ever compliment yourself on certain
things you know you are good at.
29- Learn to make his favorite dish.
30- ''DO NOT EVER ,EVER TALK BAD ABOUT HIM'' with friends or family
unnecessarily.If they end up agreeing with you ,you will see that it
hits you back in the face because you get more depressed that you have
a bad husband-and other people also think you have bad husband .
31-Use your time wisely and get things accomplished .If you are a home
maker ,take online classes and get in your community .This will make
you happy and secondary bonus is that it impresses your husband.
32-Do all above fee SABEELILLAH and you will see Allah put BARAKAH in
everything you do.
33- Husband and wife should discuss and communicate with wisdom with
each other to convey what they like and dislike of each other to do or
not to do.Do NOT give commands like he's your servant.''THEY ARE
GARMENTS TO EACH OTHER''[Surah -Baqarah 2;187]
34-Tell your husband you love him,many times. Aisha narrated that the
Prophet used to ask her how strong her love for him,she said like ''a
knot'' .And next time he would ask her.''How is that knot?'' He also
used to reply her saying''Jazakallah .,O Aishah ,wallahi you have
rejoiced in me as I have rejoiced in you.''
35- Have a race with your husband and let him win,even if you are much
fitter and stronger than him.
36-Keep fit and take care of your health so you will remain strong
mother,wife,cook and housekeeper ,INSHA ALLAH YOU WILL NOT GET FAT AND
FRUMPY''
37-Refine and cultivate good mannerisms i.e do not whime ,do not laugh
or talk too loud or walk like an elephant.
38-Do not leave the house without permission and certainly not without
his knowledge.
39- Make sure all his clothes are clean and pressed so he is always
looking fresh and crisp.
40- Do not discuss important/controversial matters with him when he is
tired or sleepy .Find right time for right discussion.
41-The way to man's heart is through his stomach lol
42- Always let him know that you appreciate him working and bringing
home the''dough'' .It makes it easier for him to go work.
43- Make sure you ALWAYS have something for dinner.
44- Brush you hair, everyday and your teeth too.
45- Do not forget to do laundry.
46- Surprise him with gifts .Even necessities ,such as shoes ,can be gifts.
47-Listen to him .(Even when he talks about extremely boring things
like basketball or computers)
48- Try( hard as it might be) to take interest in his hobbies.
49- Try not to go shopping too much...and spend all his money.
50- Look attractive and be seductive towards him .Flirt with him.
51- Learn tricks and''techniques'' to please your husband in
intimacy.(Of course goes both ways)
52- Prepare for special evening with him with special dinner and
exclusive time .
53- Take care of your skin,especially your face.The face is center of
attraction.
54- If you not satisfied intimately talk to him and tell him .Help him
or provide resources,do not wait until matters become worse.
55- Ask Allah to strengthen and preserve the bonds of compassion and
love between the two of you,every day,every prayer.Ask him to protect
that bond from shaytaan .When a lesser devil destroys the love between
spouses ,he is the most beloved of shaytaan .Nothing works like the
dua and love exists between spouses where Allah installs it.
56- Do not EVER compare you husbands to other husbands! For example do
not say''WELL HER HUSBAND DOES NOT DO THAT WHAT DO YOU...''(thats
killer)
57- Be happy with that you have because no one is perfect .If you want
perfection wait until you enter jannah together insha Allah -and of
course vice versa!!
58-Strive for Allah 's love first and foremost ! if all wives try to
seek Allah's love and pleasure surely they can keep their husbands
love too.And remember -if Allah loves you ,the angels will love you
and entire creation will love you .
59- If you pack lunch for your husband to take to work ,from time to
time sneak in a little love note or sweet poem .If he does not take a
lunch ,leave the note somewhere else for him to find ,like in his
briefcase .or wallet or on the care steering wheel.
60-Wake up for Qiyam ul- Layl (in the last third of the night) and ask
him to pray with you..
HOPE YOU LIKE IT
MAY ALLAH PRESERVE ALL OUR MARRIAGES AND HELP US UNDERSTAND AND
IMPLEMENT THEM IN AND WITH THE BEST MANNER
Ameen!!!
JAZAKALLAH.
Dear Islamic Sisters,
~~* 60 WAYS TO KEEP THE LOVE OF YOUR HUSBAND~~*
1-Behave like a female i.e.all tenderness of a female -a man does not
want a man for his wife.!!
2-Dress pleasantly .If you are a home maker ,do not say in your
sleeping suit all day.
3-Smell good!
4-Do not lay out all your problems on your husband as soon as he walks
in.Give him a little metal break.
5- Do not keep asking him''WHAT ARE YOU THINKING''??
6-Stop nagging non-stop before Allah gives you something really complain about .
7-Absolutely no talking about spousal problems to anyone you meet ,not
even under pretense of seeking help! If you think you want to solve
legitimate marital issues ,then go seek counseling with the right
person who can give you advice in either:
(I).Mediate any injustice done so any wrong can be corrected and the
couple can reunite in harmony ,or
(II) Amicable divorce.
8-Be kind to your mother -in-law the same way you would like your
husband to be kind to your own mother.
9-Learn all the rights and obligations of each other in Islam .Focus
on the fulfilling your obligations not demanding your rights.
10- Race to the door when he comes home,as if you were waiting for him
.Smile and hug him(when u r alone)
11- Keep your house clean ,at least to the level that he wants it.
12- Compliment him on the things you know he's not so confident
about(looks ,intelligence ,etc) This will build self esteem.
13- Call his family often
14- Tell him he's the best husband ever .
15 Give him a simple task to do at home and then thank him when he
does it.This will encourage him to do more.
16-When he 's talking something boring,listen ,and nod your head .Even
ask question to make it seem like you are interested.
17-Encourage him to do good deeds.
18- If he is in a bad mood ,give him some space .He will get over
it,insha Allah .
19-Thank him sincerely for providing you with food and shelter.It's a big deal
20-If he is angry with you and start yelling ,let him yell it out
while you are quiet .You will see your fight will end a lot faster
.Then when he's calm ,you can tell him your side of the story and how
you want him to change something.
21- When you are mad at him,do not say''YOU MAKE ME FURIOUS ''rather
''THIS ACTION MAKES ME UPSET''.Direct your anger to the action and
circumstances rather than at him.
22-Remember that your husband has feeling ,so take them into consideration.
23- Let him chill with his friends without guilt ,especially if they
are good guys.Encourage him to go out ,so he does not feel ''cooped
up''at home.
24-If your husband is annoyed over a little thing you do (and you can
control it) then stop dong it.Really
25-Learn how to tell him what you except without him having guess all
the time.Learn to communicate your feelings.
26-Do not get mad over small things.It's not worth it.
27-Make jokes.If you are not naturally funny ,go on internet and read
some jokes and the tell him.
28-Tell him you're best wife ever compliment yourself on certain
things you know you are good at.
29- Learn to make his favorite dish.
30- ''DO NOT EVER ,EVER TALK BAD ABOUT HIM'' with friends or family
unnecessarily.If they end up agreeing with you ,you will see that it
hits you back in the face because you get more depressed that you have
a bad husband-and other people also think you have bad husband .
31-Use your time wisely and get things accomplished .If you are a home
maker ,take online classes and get in your community .This will make
you happy and secondary bonus is that it impresses your husband.
32-Do all above fee SABEELILLAH and you will see Allah put BARAKAH in
everything you do.
33- Husband and wife should discuss and communicate with wisdom with
each other to convey what they like and dislike of each other to do or
not to do.Do NOT give commands like he's your servant.''THEY ARE
GARMENTS TO EACH OTHER''[Surah -Baqarah 2;187]
34-Tell your husband you love him,many times. Aisha narrated that the
Prophet used to ask her how strong her love for him,she said like ''a
knot'' .And next time he would ask her.''How is that knot?'' He also
used to reply her saying''Jazakallah .,O Aishah ,wallahi you have
rejoiced in me as I have rejoiced in you.''
35- Have a race with your husband and let him win,even if you are much
fitter and stronger than him.
36-Keep fit and take care of your health so you will remain strong
mother,wife,cook and housekeeper ,INSHA ALLAH YOU WILL NOT GET FAT AND
FRUMPY''
37-Refine and cultivate good mannerisms i.e do not whime ,do not laugh
or talk too loud or walk like an elephant.
38-Do not leave the house without permission and certainly not without
his knowledge.
39- Make sure all his clothes are clean and pressed so he is always
looking fresh and crisp.
40- Do not discuss important/controversial matters with him when he is
tired or sleepy .Find right time for right discussion.
41-The way to man's heart is through his stomach lol
42- Always let him know that you appreciate him working and bringing
home the''dough'' .It makes it easier for him to go work.
43- Make sure you ALWAYS have something for dinner.
44- Brush you hair, everyday and your teeth too.
45- Do not forget to do laundry.
46- Surprise him with gifts .Even necessities ,such as shoes ,can be gifts.
47-Listen to him .(Even when he talks about extremely boring things
like basketball or computers)
48- Try( hard as it might be) to take interest in his hobbies.
49- Try not to go shopping too much...and spend all his money.
50- Look attractive and be seductive towards him .Flirt with him.
51- Learn tricks and''techniques'' to please your husband in
intimacy.(Of course goes both ways)
52- Prepare for special evening with him with special dinner and
exclusive time .
53- Take care of your skin,especially your face.The face is center of
attraction.
54- If you not satisfied intimately talk to him and tell him .Help him
or provide resources,do not wait until matters become worse.
55- Ask Allah to strengthen and preserve the bonds of compassion and
love between the two of you,every day,every prayer.Ask him to protect
that bond from shaytaan .When a lesser devil destroys the love between
spouses ,he is the most beloved of shaytaan .Nothing works like the
dua and love exists between spouses where Allah installs it.
56- Do not EVER compare you husbands to other husbands! For example do
not say''WELL HER HUSBAND DOES NOT DO THAT WHAT DO YOU...''(thats
killer)
57- Be happy with that you have because no one is perfect .If you want
perfection wait until you enter jannah together insha Allah -and of
course vice versa!!
58-Strive for Allah 's love first and foremost ! if all wives try to
seek Allah's love and pleasure surely they can keep their husbands
love too.And remember -if Allah loves you ,the angels will love you
and entire creation will love you .
59- If you pack lunch for your husband to take to work ,from time to
time sneak in a little love note or sweet poem .If he does not take a
lunch ,leave the note somewhere else for him to find ,like in his
briefcase .or wallet or on the care steering wheel.
60-Wake up for Qiyam ul- Layl (in the last third of the night) and ask
him to pray with you..
HOPE YOU LIKE IT
MAY ALLAH PRESERVE ALL OUR MARRIAGES AND HELP US UNDERSTAND AND
IMPLEMENT THEM IN AND WITH THE BEST MANNER
Ameen!!!
JAZAKALLAH.
Be A Man Respect Women
Today I was checking my email and a friend of mine sent this to me. May Allah reward my friend who shared this with me. Lately I have been doing some searching within myself and my relationship with Allah swt. Subphoneallah, subphoneallah subphoneallah, allahualim, Allahu akbak.
May allah bless us all with me who respect women and who fear Allah swt. Ameen!
Be A Man Respect Women
The Prophet Muhammad Sallallahu Alaihi Wasallam said, "Fear Allah in
respect of women." And: "The best of you are they who behave best to
their wives."
The Prophet Muhammad (Sallallau Alaihi Wasallam) said, "A Muslim must
not hate his wife, and if he be displeased with one bad quality in
her, let him be pleased with one that is good."
The Prophet Muhammad (Sallallahu Alaihi Wasallam) said, "The more
civil and kind a Muslim is to his wife, the more perfect in faith he
is."
Once Mu'awiyah asked the Prophet (Sallallahu Alaihi Wcs), "What are
the rights that a wife has over her husband?" The Prophet replied, "
Feed her when you take your food, give her clothes to wear when you
wear clothes, refrain from giving her a slap on the face or abusing
her, and do not separate from your wife, except within the house."
May Allah forgive me for any errors on my part, Ameen!
Jazakallah Kherin
May allah bless us all with me who respect women and who fear Allah swt. Ameen!
Be A Man Respect Women
The Prophet Muhammad Sallallahu Alaihi Wasallam said, "Fear Allah in
respect of women." And: "The best of you are they who behave best to
their wives."
The Prophet Muhammad (Sallallau Alaihi Wasallam) said, "A Muslim must
not hate his wife, and if he be displeased with one bad quality in
her, let him be pleased with one that is good."
The Prophet Muhammad (Sallallahu Alaihi Wasallam) said, "The more
civil and kind a Muslim is to his wife, the more perfect in faith he
is."
Once Mu'awiyah asked the Prophet (Sallallahu Alaihi Wcs), "What are
the rights that a wife has over her husband?" The Prophet replied, "
Feed her when you take your food, give her clothes to wear when you
wear clothes, refrain from giving her a slap on the face or abusing
her, and do not separate from your wife, except within the house."
May Allah forgive me for any errors on my part, Ameen!
Jazakallah Kherin
Saturday, July 9, 2011
Long time not talk
Salaam,
Long time no talk.
Well since I wrote last I have had many many experiences positive and negative. But allahu alim (Allah know s best) and I have learned a lot.
For starters two of the sisters and myself have launched our website www.muslimahconnection.co Please come by the site and let us know what you think.
For those of you that may remember I have been working learning the( 99 names of Allah) Asmaul Husan by Ghafur, ‘Afw, Zhahir, Batin,99 Kareem, Mujeeb, Samad, Tawwab, 99 along with the meanings and the ayahs that the names reference in the Quran and Sunnah. Below I have attached some valuable information to help you with learning the names of Allah. Also if you have an account with itunes you should look up or search 99names of Allah there is a sister on there that gives lectures on there regarding this according to Quran and sunnah. Mashallah may Allah reward this sister and any of us who learn these names for the sake of Allah. Please visit my facebook page or contact me at raawiya.clark@gmail.com for the PDF version of the names inshallah.
http://www.islamicity.com/mosque/99names.htm
http://theonlyquran.com/99names.php?nameid=2
As salaam alaikum
Long time no talk.
Well since I wrote last I have had many many experiences positive and negative. But allahu alim (Allah know s best) and I have learned a lot.
For starters two of the sisters and myself have launched our website www.muslimahconnection.co Please come by the site and let us know what you think.
For those of you that may remember I have been working learning the( 99 names of Allah) Asmaul Husan by Ghafur, ‘Afw, Zhahir, Batin,99 Kareem, Mujeeb, Samad, Tawwab, 99 along with the meanings and the ayahs that the names reference in the Quran and Sunnah. Below I have attached some valuable information to help you with learning the names of Allah. Also if you have an account with itunes you should look up or search 99names of Allah there is a sister on there that gives lectures on there regarding this according to Quran and sunnah. Mashallah may Allah reward this sister and any of us who learn these names for the sake of Allah. Please visit my facebook page or contact me at raawiya.clark@gmail.com for the PDF version of the names inshallah.
http://www.islamicity.com/mosque/99names.htm
http://theonlyquran.com/99names.php?nameid=2
As salaam alaikum
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